Have you heard the phrase, "Out Of The Blue"? It means, coming from nowhere or sudden and unexpected. My sister used that phrase recently while addressing a group of people in her community. She made the statement that we should do nice things for people who don't expect it,  just out of the blue! All of the sudden nice things started happening in their community. A woman opened her door one evening to find a lucious watermelon placed there anonymously. Other good things cropped up and people laughed as they told their stories, not knowing who had thought of them with good wishes.

When I heard their stories, I thought of all the good things couples could do for each other. It wouldn't be anonymous, but it could be spontaneous and that would be out of the blue. It would be easy to catch your husband off guard and for sure you would not expect anything in return, right?

Love takes time and effort, especially if the waters of romance have been muddied with busyness of the day. But kindness begets kindness and it is worth it to see his surprised look when he sees a kindness.

If your marraige is no longer romantic, consider it a challenge to revive it to new life. Do you feel you have enough challenges? Then prioritize! Don't let someone else put a smile on your husband's face with their kindness and considerate ways. This is doable, you know! Surprise him! He picked you out of all the women in his life. That means you have qualities that attracted him. Prove to him that he made one of his best choice when he chose you.