Do you sometimes wonder why there is so much pain in life when you do your best to live a life pleasing to God? If you are truly His child, you can rest assured all things work for our good.

Our family has been through trials lately. As the old saying goes, it came to us "out of the blue" ! There was nothing to warn us of what we were to endure. Yes, our family has asked, "Where are you, God?" But our faith carried us back every time to the song that says, "When you can't trace His hand, trust His heart." Even now we are awaiting the finishing touch of God's loving hand. As a family we know God has our best interest at heart. We trust Him.

Through our problems, I remembered a story that my daughter-in-law shared with me a while back. I share it with you here, although unfortunately I do not know its origin. It may give you better understanding of trials and the assurance that God's gentle hand never makes a mistake.

"Malachi 3:3 says: 'He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver.' This verse puzzled some women in a Bible study and they wondered what this statement meant about the character and nature of God. One of the women offered to find out the process of refining silver and get back to the group at their next Bible Study. That week, the woman called a silversmith and made an appointment to watch him at work. She didn't mention anything about the reason for her interest beyond her curiosity about the process of refining silver.. As she watched the silversmith, he held a piece of silver over the fire and let it heat up. He explained that in refining silver, one needed to hold the silver in the middle of the fire where the flames were hottest as to burn away all the impurities. The woman thought about God holding us in such a hot spot; then she thought again about the verse that says: "He sits as a refiner and purifier of silver." She asked the silversmith if it was true that he had to sit there in front of the fire the whole time the silver was being refined. The man answered that yes, he not only had to sit there holding the silver, but he had to keep his eyes on the silver the entire time it was in the fire. If the silver was left a moment too long in the flames, it would be destroyed. The woman was silent for a moment. Then she asked the silversmith, "How do you know when the silver is fully refined?" He smiled at her and answered, "Oh, that's easy -- when I see my image in it" If today you are feeling the heat of the fire, remember that God has his eye on you and will keep watching you until He sees His image in you. "