"All my life I had been looking for something, and everywhere I turned someone tried to tell me what it was.  I accepted their answers too, though they were often in contradiction and even self-contradictory.  I was naïve.  I was looking for myself and asking everyone except myself questions which I, and only I, could answer.  It took me a long time and much painful boomeranging of my expectations to achieve a realization everyone else appears to have been born with:  that I am nobody but myself. "
                                                         Ralph Ellison 

All men should strive
to learn before they die
what they are running from, and to, and why.
~James Thurber~

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 Consider my thoughts below, as you seek to understand self better.

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Those Never Ending Though Excuse Me, Your Emotions Are Showing Making The Bitter Better Talk About Aging The Power of PMA That Mental Picture Altitudes & Attitudes Your Mind Can Make It Hap What Do You Have In Mind?