Guys, remember how you romanced your lady long ago? Look what life experiences you have shared since that time. Maybe a purchase of a home, birth of children, job changes, sickness, loss of friends, up and downs of life. It's worth celebrating what you have come through together.

So it has not been a bed of roses. But you've stayed together. Both of you are two entirely different people than the two that were married years back. If the two of you recounted your experiences together, it would sound like two different settings. Two views of the same lives. How individual we can be! So of course, there's been conflicts, differences of opinion, mind boggling frustrations. But here you are after all this time. (Or maybe your relationship is new!)

Either way, there should be a celebration. So celebrate!
You have someone to love and someone loves you.
Below are some suggestions to get you started.

~ Send a love note through the mail to her office (or for her to open at home.)

~Surprise her with a little "happy" like dinner reservations or a new restaurant you have found.

~If feasible, go by work and put her favorite music in the car player so it will play when she starts the car.

~Have her car picked up at the office for a wash job. (Don't tell her.)

~Whisper compliments to her in public.

~Rediscover coffee houses and pick a favorite table to call your own.

~You can pick up fresh flowers, even in the supermarket now.

~Buy a rose bush to plant on your anniversary.

~Need more time to be romantic? SHOOT THE TV!